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Pretty much what the question asks. How do you express gratitude or even better how do you share good things in life so that other people hopefully might try them themselves. Is this a rude and tone deaf way to think? Is it rude to assume that people want to see these things about you? Is it egotistical? Is there even a altruistic way of sharing things good things about life? I'm not saying my life is amazing I'm just kind of asking about other things that I've seen and I immediately think negative when someone talks about the positive things that have happened to them. Granted social media encourages narcissistic humble bragging so it's tricky to weed that bullshit out but I guess it can be done. Does this statement/question make any sense?

Pretty much what the question asks. How do you express gratitude or even better how do you share good things in life so that other people hopefully might try them themselves. Is this a rude and tone deaf way to think? Is it rude to assume that people want to see these things about you? Is it egotistical? Is there even a altruistic way of sharing things good things about life? I'm not saying my life is amazing I'm just kind of asking about other things that I've seen and I immediately think negative when someone talks about the positive things that have happened to them. Granted social media encourages narcissistic humble bragging so it's tricky to weed that bullshit out but I guess it can be done. Does this statement/question make any sense?

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If person 1 has a problem with person 2 else saying "My relation is perfect" or "I am so happy to have an 150 IQ", or some such thing, and this makes person 1 feel bad or envious or negative then imho person 1 ought to find a way to deal with it. Because what are the alternatives? Either the whole world adapts to person 1, or person 1 deals with it.

It is infinitely easier for one person to adapt than for the whole world to adapt to one person.

At least that's how I think about it, unless the person is directly rude like saying "I am so happy I have a better girlfriend than you" for example.

A good example of this is trannys not being able to deal with people who don't partake in their fantasies (lies). They want the whole world to adapt. They are doing it wrong. They should learn deal with people calling them by their real actual sex.

So I guess my answer is: Unless you are directly rude say whatever positivity stuff you want. If they get envious then it's up to them to deal with it.