A significant proportion of modern women do in fact believe that having an orgasm with the man you love is more burdensome than working a full time job for a boss who'd abandon you in a heartbeat to raise the stock price by a nickel. The only way to solve this is for men to grow a shiny spine and enforce equal expectations. She expects him to work to support the household? Fantastic. He expects her to *graciously and enthusiastically* put on lingerie and make him a sandwich. If she doesnt like that deal, she needs to find out promptly that single men can survive quite comfortably on 15% of what it takes to support a family, and that frees up 85% of his working hours for something less shrewish like "Xbox" and "reading a book".