I met my husband while I was going to trade school. I had every intention of working. He wanted me to marry him and stay home instead. So I agreed on the condition that he pay that loan, it was 12 grand because trade school instead of 100k on a useless degree. He agreed, so I quit school and he did pay it. Women need to learn to negotiate better, or at all it seems like. Most of them seem to be floating around just doing stupid shit and getting mad at everyone else.

The "hasn't been working for years" says she has already been leeching off the guy for quite awhile, and the "no idea how she will pay back these loans" tells me whatever BS degee those loans were for...was exactly that. Liberal Arts? Wimmins Studies? Theatre Arts? Some other BS with zero chance for an actual job? Sounds like her career path was Parasitology....something most women excel at without any need for a degree.

Guys, never marry a woman with substantial debt. Invariably she will expect you to pay it, plus whatever debt she continues to accrue.