I’m not taking it lightly. My NY house is up for sale and currently renting a room from the ex wife to be with my kids and be able to be a influence in their lives again. And I do talk to them about a lot of life things that most people make mistakes and then learn. Like nuggets aren’t your friends ex specially when other nuggets join in. Never relax. Jews and the banking system. Project mocking bird. Im obviously more subtle about the things. But I make sure to point out hints here and there.