https://youtu.be/xpGKtBcwrjI based on a couple of events that occurred in my life. both were different and both played a big part in why i went mgtow. on the surface, they didn't appear all that much the same. taking time out to engage in serious self-reflection and meditation they had much more in common than i considered. keep it real engaging in too much thought on how things will go in head will create expectations. these expectations will then have to be met, so keep it real concentrated on your life first