I usually just end up sleeping with them and if it's really good and no bad vibe then I ask them to move in right away unless they have kids then I take it really slow since those women are looking for a paycheck to get them the lifestyle they cannot have or you'll end up on a shelf second fiddle to any kids appointment need or mood change. Dating is long gone in my book, history and not happening on a no professional salary of anyone making less that 50k a year. Also you are right, never date anyone you work with, they're with you all the time them break, lunch, home and it'll self destruct from to much of her or you for her in a short time. Don't dip you personal pen in the company ink a wise manager once told me, he was so right. Also was married to an ex Patriots Cheerleader, tall hot blonde around 50 looked in her 30's so I took that mans advise to heart. If you marry someone you work with get a different job so the relationship is better, time away is great as long as it's not extended where suspicion sets in if she's fucking around behind your back or she thinks you are. The video is to vague using initials instead of straight up. WTF is seal the deal, if it's sex then get it immediately. If she doesn't give it up she's using you or old fashioned but many women string 3 to ? guys along dating and fucking maybe 20 at the same period in time just spacing the sex out a bit so you get it every month then find she's got 10 others and every 3 days sex with the one in line next, way to common especially with social media it's like a whore app with texting you're unaware of.