True. I've noticed how shaming is a bad thing now. "You can't victim shame me" "oh, you're body shaming me!" "Don't slut shame me!" And so on. No. If you do detestable shit, you should feel shame. It means you're feeling the repercussions of your shitty actions and maybe you'll learn to not be so shitty again. Should make "shame on you" a new thing to say to these idiots.