A girl is a human being with a soul and can become a new and different person, shoes are inanimate objects to be tossed aside once worn out.
Not that it's easy but "with God all things are possible." That doesn't mean though that it's your or my responsibility to be part of that plan, to marry her and try to change her, necessarily, nobody wants used goods, understandably.
God's forgiveness does not mean they aren't permanently damaged. But hopefully people like this do find peace and a better direction in life.
Yeah, no doubt there are lasting psychological problems, to different degrees, but if they're really young, teens I mean, they can be misguided and neglected, no protection, no direction from parents, and can be salvaged, thus was my situation, we married when she was 16 and have been together over 40 years.
Her promiscuity (and it was pretty bad) was more abuse than anything else. But like I said, she was quite young. Likely much harder if they've played around while more mature, thus bloodying a more responsible and enlightened conscience. At any rate, we live in one sick damn world.
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