> = dead child How it happened isn't really important, a guy got behind the wheel of a car while drunk and killed their child. It could have been a homicide etc. but at the end of the day the child that you have invested so much into is gone. I would never forgive somebody at fault for causing the death of one of my children and that's why this is a perfect post for /s/insanity, not securing the existence of your people and preparing a future for your children is inherently insane.