Ask colleagues if they enjoy fishing, it's a good way to relax and be a lad amongst other blokes. It's cheap, you're in the elements, its competitive, and you don't have to say anything if you don't want to. You might find out away from a work setting that there are more things real men will find comfortable talking about outside of the 'woke' PC work environment too. Like you, I don't have the patience to entertain manchildren anymore when they bring up the next comic/star wars movie, and most sports these days are just that, nigger sports ball with ridiculous salaries and continuous scandals, that celebrate degenerates with substance abuse and sexual fetishism.