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don't let your woman be your counselor, it makes you into a needy child in her mind. Something to be taken care of, a liability, instead of a strong independent provider.
Women want men who don't act like they want or need them back. Women are biologically designed emotionally to be treated as property. Cared for and protected property, but property.
don't let your woman be your counselor
Since the beginning of man, women have been men's counselors. It's the way mother nature is made.
Asking men not to take counsel with their wives is asking both man and woman to go against their nature.
What men can do is simply find a partner and not an enemy.
In the image's case, she failed the test and won't be wifed anytime soon.
I agree with this. Quality woman won't turn her back on her man when he is facing emotional struggles.
That kind of attitude is product of feminism. Acting all strong and independent while these cunts afraid to face their own insecurities and emotional havoc, and when they see them in men - they bail. Because feminism taught them to hate femininity.
Before emancipation that was woman's job to hold together emotional processes of family.
But I will not argue, that if you found yourself a whore modern woman for pounding then you gotta stay chad.
It is all kind of sad and disgusting.
Agree with this.
While women may act less rational and hysterical in emergency situations (something men are much better at handling), in "down time", women can function as excellent counselors to their men. You should be able to confide and counsel with your woman. She should have your back. And when shit hits the fan, you stand up and destroy or block all harm to your woman and children.
Each of us have a role to fulfill. Assigned to use by nature. A man who does not find a good woman to privately and secretly seek counsel with, is a man that is without a true foundation.
I agree with your view on this.
One also shouldn't expect that a cold hearted bitch, who will leave you the moment you show any vulnerability, will treat your children in a motherly way.
In the first line you said women are men's counselors, but in the second line you said WIVES. There's a huge difference between some random woman and a wife.
Second, men are supposed to counsel men. Now it doesn't look like a cry fest, but it starts with fathers teaching their sons how to manage their emotions and channel it into a healthy outlet. Then men are supposed to be brothers to each other as friends. They're not supposed to be so ego driven that they make enemies of other men.
Unfortunately men end up being fake to one another and then go cry to random women like they're their mothers. That's not healthy. Our society has learned to worship women and need women and sex for everything. Because men do this, our society is falling apart with women in positions of power. Men have become subservient to women.
A wife is there to encourage her husband and support him. Why? So that HE can be the leader both of the family and in public life. That's healthy. Back when there were actually families society had men who were supported and when they went out into the public they were capable leaders. But if the husband is crying to his wife all the time to make decisions then that's not a healthy marriage. It's all about balance.
You are right that it's all about balance. If need be, seek a therapist.
However, according to the image that started this thread, they knew each other for quite a while and the women edged the man to open up. As such it might not be a wife, yet not a random woman either.
Asking someone to open up and then discard them is cold hearted and cruel. Such a woman would probably make for a manipulative wife and eventually cold hearted and cruel mother.
If you are an independent, strong provider who cannot expect any emotional support, as despite caring and protecting you fear being discarded at a whim, then tell me: who is whom's property?
What I mean to say is women are attracted to a man who never askes or acts like he needs emotional support.
But a good wife should be a cheerleader and give that support without being asked.
Your mentioning the man fearing being discarded, is a true situation of the legal reality of marriage in the west. But What I intend to describe is the emotional attraction dynamics of females and how men should try to behave if they want to be seen as sexually attractive to women.
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