https://archive.org/details/virgingrailorigi0000goer/page/8/mode/2up?q=unfortunate >“Perceval the wretched! Oh, unfortunate Perceval, what a hapless man you were not to have asked these questions. ... I am your first cousin, and you are my first cousin. I grieve no less for your misfortune in not learning what is done with the graal and to whom it is carried, than for your mother who is dead, or for this knight, whom I loved and cherished.” (11. 3545-3610; pp. 383-384)