I'm guessing the "unknown daycare" is a relatives house, and the "social worker job" was actually community service for a minor drug offense. There needs to be things in life it's ok to fuck up and things in life it's not ok to fuck up. It really is that simple. This isn't some extenuating circumstance. People that would even accidentally bake kids like cookies in an oven shouldn't procreate in the first place. Society built jails so they wouldn't do it again. Now mentally ill people are trying to tear them down. If everything comes w/ a 2nd chance then fucking up is meaningless.