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She doesn’t know that I know. I just found out. Separate bank account with almost 5k in it being added to weekly.

I pay for all the bills and have for years and years. Always being told she spends her money “on the kids”

Not really sure where to go with this new knowledge but had to get it off my chest somewhere. We have 5 kids. Feeling a little bit betrayed.

She doesn’t know that I know. I just found out. Separate bank account with almost 5k in it being added to weekly. I pay for all the bills and have for years and years. Always being told she spends her money “on the kids” Not really sure where to go with this new knowledge but had to get it off my chest somewhere. We have 5 kids. Feeling a little bit betrayed.

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[–] [deleted] • 6 pts

Not gonna lie, if my wife did this I would be super pissed. Not because she did it, but because she didnt tell me. 100% communication is what is required for a healthy relationship. Already you have formed doubts because this rule was broken. Two must become one. However, she may be preparing fpr a suprise present or similar. This would make me double pissed PERSONNALY. I hate suprises and wasted money on this scale.

[–] • 3 pts

I doubt it’s for a gift there was 4300 in there on my birthday, I checked.

I am upset. Just thinking through my next move.

[–] [deleted] • 3 pts

Who was the greater witness in your marriage? The state, friends or God?

[–] • 1 pt

For me, God

Really tho we eloped in Reno NV for 50 bucks cause no one approved of our union (cheesy as fuck but the truth)

[–] • -1 pt (edited )

Yever just honched down on a barrel and been like that's "nigger justice?" Only if you sucked them off first. I understand you? Nah.

[–] • -1 pt

Are you serious faggot? Sounds like your greatest witness was ego.

[–] • 1 pt

Do you actually have a relationship with your wife that has 100% trust?

If you do, I am extremely envious of your relationship.

I trust exactly one person 100%, and maybe that is sad, but I feel like it is realistic.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

100% communication yes, 100% trust no. I don't trust her with things such as ensuring she follows the level of detail I try to put down in regards to caring for our animals. In the same way I hope she doesn't trust me to ensure I take care of our children properly because babies are shit and very annoying.