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She doesn’t know that I know. I just found out. Separate bank account with almost 5k in it being added to weekly.

I pay for all the bills and have for years and years. Always being told she spends her money “on the kids”

Not really sure where to go with this new knowledge but had to get it off my chest somewhere. We have 5 kids. Feeling a little bit betrayed.

She doesn’t know that I know. I just found out. Separate bank account with almost 5k in it being added to weekly. I pay for all the bills and have for years and years. Always being told she spends her money “on the kids” Not really sure where to go with this new knowledge but had to get it off my chest somewhere. We have 5 kids. Feeling a little bit betrayed.

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Do you actually have a relationship with your wife that has 100% trust?

If you do, I am extremely envious of your relationship.

I trust exactly one person 100%, and maybe that is sad, but I feel like it is realistic.

[–] [deleted] • 1 pt

100% communication yes, 100% trust no. I don't trust her with things such as ensuring she follows the level of detail I try to put down in regards to caring for our animals. In the same way I hope she doesn't trust me to ensure I take care of our children properly because babies are shit and very annoying.