I'm glad I'm old and have never had to wrestle with these complicated conundrums. I doubt that your problem is unique though. There must be some wise, scholarly guidance you could get on this from an approved MSM or academic source. Good luck with your transitions and let us know how it all works out. It is an experience you could document, possibly write a best selling book, and become an instant Reddit celebrity.
I hope this one goes well because I sort of want to do several.
Document everything thoroughly ... it'll help with the book.
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