"I never was molested and I never knew any gay people growing or really what being gay was. Why am I gay?" Tell us which country you grew up in. I'm betting it's a country that allowed you to be exposed to gay media correct? You know what that's called when it's purposely made to not mention anything negative about the gay community at all? Propaganda. " I just realized I was only attracted to men when I hit adolescence." Let me guess, it was a older man that "showed you the way" too right? Because if that happened? Sorry bro, you got groomed and molested. He wasn't showing you anything. He was just getting off with a minor and glad he didn't get caught. That's it. "All these "theories" are stupid" Not "theory." Facts. Big difference. We've come into contact with people from isolated area's of the world who have been cut off from all of global society entirely for hundreds of years that have no clue whatsoever about gays. Imagine that. It's like the people who make said propaganda know its purposely divisive by nature and do so in hopes to make a society that is divisive which makes them easier to rule if their too busy fighting with each other. I mean it's only happened pretty much our entire existence as humans...