Then do research to find a better community, get the rest of your life together, sell the stuff you don't need and your house, and move. I hear nice things about Coeur d'Alene, Idaho.
It's not that easy. We moved the kids across the country to live here, they have settled into their school, etc. I'm not moving them again.
You want to raise your kids where all the role models are overweight and chew tobacco? Well, that's a choice.
It's better than where they are all brown.
There's no reason why a guy wouldn't relocate to you, as BurnInHelena pointed out there's the same number of single guys out there who suck at finding the right person.
Men tend to be pretty self sufficient and may be disillusioned with online dating, so figure out the kind of guy you like and then work out where they are probably hanging out.
As hopefully a useful suggestion, "meatlady" maybe isn't the kind of forum name that says 'feminine'? so you may be doing yourself a disservice here.
Online dating is a numbers game, you have to be out there to get noticed. Beyond that, while you are outside of a relationship, have a look at any personal baggage that might affect a future relationship, maybe learn some new conversational/empathy skills. Because beyond looks, men really want someone to understand them. There's a bit of a learning curve going from widowed to back into dating, so relearning how to talk to guys will put you way ahead of all the "save me from my poor life decisions" types
That's some sage advice there, wet pussy :)
I will have to disagree on the relocation thing though, a dude would have to be pretty desperate to quit a job, sell their house, leave their network of friends and acquaintances just because they feel lonely on some weeknights. Then there's trivial shit like favorite fishing/hunting spots, hiking trails, etc. Then the covaids thing, I doubt anyone would want to leave a mask free state and move to a mandatory mask state because they're lonely and are willing to settle for a broad with children and yuppy purse dogs. If they are that desperate, that's kind of a red flag right there.
100% agree with all your other points though.
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