If a wife has leverage over her husband but he has no control of her that's when you get broken families where the woman calls the shots and the man is turned into a weak cuck who is stuck just trying to get by. You can't just turn the chain of command within a family on its head and not expect consequences. Faggotry, circumcision, and "strong independent women" are all a symptom of this among other things.
Sounds like a failure of the husband, either to better vet his spouse before marrying her, or for not being a good enough husband throughout to keep her loyal.
Women will never be happy if they have the freedom to seek other options, they will constantly try to upgrade without a care for what they already have, and you can never be sure of your wife's true nature or that it will stay constant.
You could always go incel. Sounds like you'd fit in.
You say it as if it's a choice.
Lol...no, only men who ARE ALREADY weak cucks get cucked by their women. So-called strong and independent women, LIKE to get dominated just as much as any other woman. Actually, even more-so in my experience, but only by a man they actually respect. A man worthy of them. So if your wife doesn't want to put out, or you feel cucked by her, yes, absolutely, that's on you.
Why? Because you either lost her respect and admiration, or you never had it to begin with. In all likelihood, you lost it. Many men do. They get lazy, they get depressed, they ignore their women, or get comfortable with monotony. They STOP being the strong, powerful, commanding men they once were, and lose the respect of the woman they once had. Lying, deception, and so on all contribute. Lying is probably the biggest sign of weakness and cowardice in a man. Lie to a woman, and you've handed her your balls. And not in the fun sort of way.
So how to keep the respect? Be the best man. Abide by the cardinal virtues. Always be improving yourself. Stop being a defensive, whiny, bitchy, entitled man.
You can be sure of your wife's true nature. Your wife's true nature is an emotionally weak ball of emotions that can change at the drop of a hat. They are weak creatures who need patience and guidance and constant reassurance that you are their best bet. That's their nature. That's biology. A woman can have approximately one baby a year. They have much more risk than men when it comes to choosing who to mate with. Should they mate with this simp cuck little bitch boy who complains about his hard day at work? Or should they mate with the strong confident Chad, who never shows cowardice, always shows a tempered mood, and holds their woman to account when the woman is in the wrong?
Identifying as an incel is a choice. Picking the wrong woman for the wrong reasons is a choice. Not acting like a man is a choice. Not fixing the situation is a choice.
Of course, yes, some women just suck. Avoid them. Don't marry them. Divorce them, if it's too late. Staying with them and getting all pissy to the point that you start justifying rape is...well it's about as low T behavior as you can get.
So-called strong and independent women, LIKE to get dominated just as much as any other woman.
Yet our laws mean that it is illegal to! This whole comment chain because you brought up "rape" within marriage yet here you are saying that is literally what women want! These laws are clearly designed to destroy families by making marriage seem "boring" to women.
actually, even more-so in my experience, but only by a man they actually respect. A man worthy of them
Women respect force, yet we can't lay a hand on them, how are you supposed to make them respect you when they can't be disaplined?
Why? Because you either lost her respect and admiration, or you never had it to begin with. In all likelihood, you lost it. Many men do. They get lazy, they get depressed, they ignore their women, or get comfortable with monotony. They STOP being the strong, powerful, commanding men they once were, and lose the respect of the woman they once had. Lying, deception, and so on all contribute. Lying is probably the biggest sign of weakness and cowardice in a man. Lie to a woman, and you've handed her your balls. And not in the fun sort of way.
Women are fucking enigmatic, it's unreasonable to expect a man to be able to keep his wife happy while also legally unable to be in control of the household. By demanding so much of men while giving so much control to women you're making it impossible to live up to your standards. You can't "dominate" your wife if the balance of power is so far in her favor.
You can be sure of your wife's true nature. Your wife's true nature is an emotionally weak ball of emotions that can change at the drop of a hat. They are weak creatures who need patience and guidance and constant reassurance that you are their best bet. That's their nature. That's biology.
And you admit the emotional instability of women, so why do you expect men to be able to maintain 24/7 control over his wife's feelings to keep her from leaving?
A woman can have approximately one baby a year. They have much more risk than men when it comes to choosing who to mate with. Should they mate with this simp cuck little bitch boy who complains about his hard day at work? Or should they mate with the strong confident Chad, who never shows cowardice, always shows a tempered mood, and holds their woman to account when the woman is in the wrong?
Once she has been wed the choice has been made, there should be no going back. How can meaningful can it be to hold a woman accountable when there is nothing you can legally do to discipline her? Do you support being able to cut off your wife from her social contacts and money(including that which is in her name)? There needs to be some recourse a problem wife short of divorce if families are to stay together.
Identifying as an incel is a choice. Picking the wrong woman for the wrong reasons is a choice. Not acting like a man is a choice. Not fixing the situation is a choice.
Whether or not you identify as an incel is a meaningless choice, typically the only alternative to "Picking the wrong woman" is the death of your genetic lineage, and there is no way of fixing the situation left because all power in a relationship has been taken from men by laws.
Meh, whatever man. Sounds like a you problem to me. Plenty of men seem to be fully capable of doing this. I imagine you have an excuse for just about all of your failures, and most likely don't include you.
Some genetic lineages...just don't deserve to continue.
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