And Adam's issue was letting her do it, then being led by her when she gave him the fruit. In short, all of Man's problems were due to listening to Woman (instead of God) and letting her do whatever she wills - because she looked upon the fruit and thought "This looks better than everything else I have in this paradise, I want it." Womens problem is listening to jews/Satan when he says "You go girl, do the thing! Yaas, slay!" Adam was apathetic to Eve's doings, and was led astray by her doing the thing and telling him afterwards "Well, I'm not dead so it must be fine." That part is on Adam. He should have told Satan to buzz off and told Eve "No." But he didn't, and thus Eve did the One Thing they were told not to do. Then believing her and being complicit in her crime. The lessons here are "Do not listen to women in matters outside the immediate household, and never let them make decisions on matters of import. They were not meant for it. Also, don't be apathetic to women. They'll run amok and ruin everything in the eternal quest for 'more.'" And looking at the world, and state of women? It's very much true. I've seen many men be content with what they have, even if they'd like more. Not many women can say the same, though it's praise-worthy when they do. I've seen more women ruin the lives of everyone around them, and others, because they always want more, or better, or shinier.