Nature works to produce the strongest possible mating outcome, aka a child. The strongest and most capable of extreme violence and aggression, but right on the border of killing his own family. The bad boy, barely controllable, but just enough to make it work. Anything over that line, and the children will not survive. Anything less than that line, and the children may not be strong enough to survive. You wonder why hot women date violent scumbags? They are driven to do it by their own biology. When you are clearly the pack leader women throw themselves at you. Failing that they then throw their daughters at you. Men being men is what drives women wild. There is nothing they crave more during the mating years. This is why our enemies seek to make our men into faggots and soy boys. Faggots do not reproduce. Beta males produce weak offspring.