Why do you want a woman your age? Mid 30s you should be looking for women mid 20s or younger. Women don’t age the same as men. Find one younger than you who wants someone to make a family with that can actually provide for them. The women in their 30s who aren’t married didn’t want kids, they wanted to make money or party. I wanted a family so I got married before I could even drink legally. We’ll probably have 4 kids before I’m 30. IMO people should have as many kids as they’re financially able to. A woman in her mid 30s can’t give you that. If they’re a good person it’s ok to make exceptions but there’s no reason at all for a guy in their 30s to settle for a woman of the same age. You can do better.