It means that I set the overall direction of the household. I don't have final say over how all our time is spent or how all our money is spent, but if I say that we need to spend money in a particular way, spend time with groups of friends, promote or denigrate a particular kind of media- my opinion carries weight and sways the rest of the people living there.

For my part, it means that my choices need to be made reasonably. I need to make sure that when I voice an opinion or make a call one way or another that it's the best informed opinion I can make.

Responsibility. It means that you're the one who has to put on their big boy pants and handle each crisis as it surfaces. The buck stops here is the watch words of a decent head of household. It's your job to figure it out and make it right for all.

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still dont know wtf he does

solid advice