I've never looked at a dead relative in a coffin. Why? Because I don't want to remember them that way. Similarly, I don't want to see a relative give birth. My brother's wife is a nice person. I don't want, every time I look at her, to be thinking of some huge bloody mass coming out from between her gaping cunt. She and my brother offered to show me a video of her giving birth. I said, "Thanks, but no thanks."