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Humans are smart animals. Cheating happens. So there is a vast sea of options between pretend it didn't happen and murder her. What is the solution?

Humans are smart animals. Cheating happens. So there is a vast sea of options between pretend it didn't happen and murder her. What is the solution?

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[–] 5 pts

Find a partner who won't cheat.

That being said if they do cheat leave. If they will do it once they will do it twice.

[–] 4 pts

Marriage is based on trust. Did she have permission of not the trust is gone imo. If she did have permission is that fair to you she can bring home any number of diseases hell even another man's child.

[–] 3 pts

Even a niglet where you're on the hook for child support for 18 years.

[–] 2 pts

I think I will find I'm in the minority with my opinion, I think it depends on the situation, and I believe if you are married its permanent, if she cheated then there is something wrong with her and I believe for the most part she humans can change and improve. So I'd say give the ultimatum if its a first time thing, fix your shit.

Too quote one punch man "Humans beings are strong because we can change ourselves"

[–] [deleted] 2 pts

People can modify behavior through will and routine and liberal application of perspective modification, but the core stays essentially the same unless it goes through extreme circumstances. That's how I view it. It is respectful to stay together especially if there are kids.

[–] 1 pt

Stone her. Im over the whole forgive your cheating spouse mentality. If your a whore dont get married, if you get married, know that if you cheat you will be killed. Period. We need to do this for a shit load of things in life until the fuckwads of the world are all gone or get taught not to do certain shit.

[–] 1 pt

Life isn't like math; there isn't a right solution that applies every time. There are many factors to continue, not the least of which is whether you can ever put it behind you. About the only thing that you can hang a hat on it to not rush to decide. The only way you can hope to get some perspective on the situation is to wait. I'm talking like at least a year. And if you don't think you can wait that long then you definitely need to cut her loose.