Finding a good woman means you can't be completely superficial and focus on looks. She has to have the right mindset.
I'm having this dilemma right now. Found and have gone on a couple dates with an unjabbed, similar age, childless, mother figure who wants lots of babies. So much so she has fostered multiple babies from newborn to toddlers. But in the looks department... Eh. She needs to loose 50 pounds. It's just a turn off.
Losing weight is doable. 50#s is a 7 month job.
Genuinely fugly is difficult to overcome.
I'm talking about Instant Pot stuff with her now. Really like my Instapot....
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