i get the concern. have you asked her why she keeps them open, and then after explain why you prefer them shut? maybe if she understood the concern is security, she would better honor the request.
If she wants to look outside, that could be a good opportunity to deepen the relationship by taking her out to a nice outdoors place for a picnic. wildlife preserve or riverfront or lake or something like that.
do you know why she likes to keep them open? could be maybe she wants to watch for problems. That could be an opportunity to install cameras at her preferred angle, she can watch on the phone and you get to keep the blinds closed. I'm sure there's a win/win in there somewhere
Taking her outside in a neighbourhood like that could be a great redpill experience for her.
If she isnt cautious its because she has had a serious lack of bad stuff happening to her. If she is the kind of woman who wont listen and be guided by you then in that kinda area she will bring trouble down on herself or you or both. If she is the kinda woman who just ignores what you say she probably wont even learn even if a home invader messes her up, probably blame you for not looking after her.
If shes not your forever girl you should just dump her… but who in their right mind listens to people on the internet???
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