It sounds like you have a fat woman coworker who pretends to to fix respirators all day, but really sits on her fat ass playing Candy Crush and just enters bullshit numbers into the tracking system to make the boss think she is doing something. Either that or some lazy prick that just browses Reddit all day and has a huge backlog of work that doesn't bother him, but those pieces of medial equipment are needed in a bad way. If either of those are are remotely close to what you have going on, the place you work at has a VERY shitty manager who doesn't notice anything, and just likes to receive the sucking up that all of the lazy ass kissers do. Unless you can get that manager replaced, seriously consider finding a job elsewhere. Yes, you might not find something as close to home or would have to take a pay cut because the plave you're at gets government funding and doesn't care (yet) about wasting money. But the effect this is having on your health is taking years off of your life. This is your life, and you only get one of this life. Don't spend it being miserable, the you bring that home with you and it can put a wedge between you and your wife. If that place is managed so poorly, it could end up going under or having all of its funding pulled one day, so finding a different job now, even with a bit less.pay, might be a good stepping stone to something even better.