You should apologize here. No matter what the argument was about before you escalated it by doing this. No matter how bad the argument gets, she is still a person who you made an oath to spend the rest of your life with, you can't treat her like that. This is an advice from an expert wife arguer.
Yeah, you're completely right. I don't even know how I got like that. It was so out of character for me. Getting drunk was also uncharacteristic. I just feel like an idiot.
Look, it happens. Life if difficult and sometimes stress gets to you. I also then to become cruel when I'm under too much pressure, and I realized this is because I want people to get away from me and leave me alone. Now I have learned to "catch" this before it happens and do something that will give me alone time to reflect, like go for a drive or go to the gym during quiet hours.
Best way to fix it this now would be to sincerely apologize and take her out on a date for eat somewhere nice to make up for the bad dinner. She will appreciate it.
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