It's important to differentiate between distrust and insecurity. Women are inherently less secure due to higher trait neuroticism and absurdly long modern dating timelines. I can assure you no adult woman in 1524 was "dating" for 5 years or whatever it is zoomers do these days.
Ask her about it in a non-accusatory manner. A good way to think of relationship challenges like this is asking "tell me more" about whatever odd thing your partner did. She probably should be a bit chagrined about it, particularly if you're a candidate for the "I bet he's thinking about another woman meme"...where your search history is actually "When DID the winged hussars arrive?" and brisket recipes like a normal man. Having that non-accusatory conversation will take ten minutes, which is much less than a breakup and even less than trying to vet a new girlfriend who isnt a blue haired communist.
Damn you... you knew I'd have to look it up! I'm actually happy did tbh
The Polish hussars (/həˈzɑːrs/; Polish: husaria [xuˈsarja]),[a] alternatively known as the winged hussars, were a heavy cavalry formation active in Poland and in the Polish–Lithuanian Commonwealth from 1503 to 1702. Their epithet is derived from large rear wings, which were intended to demoralize the enemy during a charge. The hussars ranked as the elite of Polish cavalry until their official disbanding in 1776.
They also saved Vienna from an Ottomam siege, which is pretty cool.
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