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I just talked to him a few days before and he seemed fine. Nothing out of the ordinary. Then I get the call from his sister my mom. (Trying to get info right but everything blends together.) It was actually the wife but she didn't tell me. She just said I needed to call my mom.

Shot himself. His sister is absolutely broken right now. She should have never been the one to find him. The rest of his family is complete usless trash. They just want to cremate him because it's the cheapest option. That sent his sister into full mental breakdown. She wants a burial but can't afford it. I'm trying to come up with something but right now I'm lucky I was even able to get my company to dispatch me home to help her. She told me, "You have know idea how much love he had for you." and that broke me.

I grew up with this guy. We've been friends since we were 12. Played basketball together. Video games. Arrested together for being idiots. You name it.

I just can't wrap my mind around why he fucking did it. I'm gonna miss that faggot.

Sorry for the jumbled mess. I'm still kinda out of it.

I just talked to him a few days before and he seemed fine. Nothing out of the ordinary. Then I get the call from ~~his sister~~ my mom. (Trying to get info right but everything blends together.) It was actually the wife but she didn't tell me. She just said I needed to call my mom. Shot himself. His sister is absolutely broken right now. She should have never been the one to find him. The rest of his family is complete usless trash. They just want to cremate him because it's the cheapest option. That sent his sister into full mental breakdown. She wants a burial but can't afford it. I'm trying to come up with something but right now I'm lucky I was even able to get my company to dispatch me home to help her. She told me, "You have know idea how much love he had for you." and that broke me. I grew up with this guy. We've been friends since we were 12. Played basketball together. Video games. Arrested together for being idiots. You name it. I just can't wrap my mind around why he fucking did it. I'm gonna miss that faggot. Sorry for the jumbled mess. I'm still kinda out of it.

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[–] • 3 pts

My uncle just took himself out, but he was 78 with no wife or kids and didn't have much else to do other than sit around and rot to death. He moved from one city to another to be closer to my dad. Perhaps that cut him off from his friends and contacts he had prior. He wasn't visiting with my dad much. It still made me feel bad that happened. I'm sure it's way worse with a young/younger person. I'm sorry this happened.

[–] • 2 pts

I'm sorry for your loss too. I don't think the age changes much. It's still just as permanent and hurts just as much. Hope you're doing alright.

[–] • 1 pt

He wasn't a very active part of my life, but he's been there my whole life. I remember when I got to ride on the back of his motorcycle through the neighborhood. It was just 25mph streets, but I was only about 8. Now he's left me (my brothers and cousins as a group) a nice sum of money, and that's got me feeling all mixed up. I'm currently filling out paperwork to get the second half of it. It's a blessing that will help me out a lot, but I wish I could have received it under different conditions.