I'm gonna tell you a quick story if you will lend me your time.
I lost my daughter in a custody dispute. I mean she's still alive but you really would not believe the number they did on me in the legal system. My disillusionment with the government started then.
I'm damn near 40 now. I spent years broken and broken hearted. I felt like starting a family would be abandoning my daughter. My daughter I never see. I'm not gonna have a lot of luck getting her back in my life and it could unleash a rage in me this world rarely sees. Never against her, of course, but ...anyways.
About a year ago I realized starting a family would be some kind of an answer to this. It also has the side benefit of being a massive middle finger to certain people and institutions. For sure, I would excel at raising a family but I don't know how to get started.
As for me I'm fine. Decent shape, good job, active, a bit outdoorsy, blah. People say dating sites are for hookup culture but I've tried every single one and haven't even been able to get someone to talk to me. Pretty much I am done with dating sites as nothing I try works at all, fake profiles, paying money for false hope, etc.
I'm agnostic so church is not an option. I just have no freaking clue at all where to meet women.
Help me out poal. Give me some ideas. I know some of you might consider this "cringe" but I am genuine and willing to put in the work to get what I want.
I'm gonna tell you a quick story if you will lend me your time.
I lost my daughter in a custody dispute. I mean she's still alive but you really would not believe the number they did on me in the legal system. My disillusionment with the government started then.
I'm damn near 40 now. I spent years broken and broken hearted. I felt like starting a family would be abandoning my daughter. My daughter I never see. I'm not gonna have a lot of luck getting her back in my life and it could unleash a rage in me this world rarely sees. Never against her, of course, but ...anyways.
About a year ago I realized starting a family would be some kind of an answer to this. It also has the side benefit of being a massive middle finger to certain people and institutions. For sure, I would excel at raising a family but I don't know how to get started.
As for me I'm fine. Decent shape, good job, active, a bit outdoorsy, blah. People say dating sites are for hookup culture but I've tried every single one and haven't even been able to get someone to talk to me. Pretty much I am done with dating sites as nothing I try works at all, fake profiles, paying money for false hope, etc.
I'm agnostic so church is not an option. I just have no freaking clue at all where to meet women.
Help me out poal. Give me some ideas. I know some of you might consider this "cringe" but I am genuine and willing to put in the work to get what I want.
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