Up voted, but only because it's true. Soulmate is a term thrown around a lot and I find it kind of disgusting how folks just expect this perfect being to appear. It never happens like that. To be honest, been married twice, and the first one was a shit show because of my idea and his idea that we were supposed to just "work" without putting in any work.
The second one was kind of a weird situation where he was older than me and I was receptive to listening to his views on things.
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