First, you a wrong, there is no such thing as a soulmate. You bought into the first lie they fed you and that lie put you on the road of unhappiness. So knock it off and get that that “Soulmate” nonsense out of your head.
You can meet someone and love them and they can love you back. Love is not all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a commitment, a promise to take care of someone no matter what (except for betrayal, that voids all contracts.)
Realize that to the degenerates you are the degenerate!
Life is not magic, look around, this is real, it’s not a matrix. The only thing you control is what you do and the choices you make.
Stop making bad choices and do better with yourself. Ultimately it’s all up to you. Stop drinking, stop chasing terrible people. Dig and plant your own garden, reap what you sow. Asshole!
You sir are speaking truths, thank you
Up voted, but only because it's true. Soulmate is a term thrown around a lot and I find it kind of disgusting how folks just expect this perfect being to appear. It never happens like that. To be honest, been married twice, and the first one was a shit show because of my idea and his idea that we were supposed to just "work" without putting in any work.
The second one was kind of a weird situation where he was older than me and I was receptive to listening to his views on things.
Nice post. On an unrelated note, was the handle SwindlersGrift taken?
I have no idea, take if it’s available. I have no claim.
Looking back I wish I had! It would be too unoriginal of me to take it now.
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