Yeah, I'm really going to want to stay out of every hospital and probably do a home birth. If the doctors and nurses pressure me like I've heard they do to other parents about vax, it will not be very pretty for anyone involved. Imagine a guy yelling at hospital staff that is from OLD Voat...
You wont have time to wait finding a midwife. The good ones are booked out. I'd move on it asap.
This is something I have not anticipated having no children yet. Thanks for the tip.
A lot of people are turning to it to avoid the hospital. Make sure your wife takes lots of good fish oils and iodine for your babys IQ!
Congrats on the news! As has been said, get your reservation in now and find a qualified midwife.
With decades of front line medical work, the most amazing birth i was on scene at was a home birth. Not giving medical advice. The baby came out with a freaking APGAR of TEN. No exaggeration. The midwife said this is NORMAL for those folks that she has attended to. It was fantastic. Mom no pain meds but comfortable, more than you ever would have imagined possible. Years later (recently) some stranger said to me, oh you were there when that baby was born. Growing up healthy and happy.
The VALUES that this family had were evident in how they were able to approach this event. Glad they had the means to do it.
Had some other frens that yeah she had the baby at the hospital. Some extremely frightening points during that birth. They almost lost the mom. Then i found out later how they held them hostage until an MD signed them off to get out of there without the normal regimen of vaccines.
I spoke with them later, as i was not there during that event. I said, they WERE holding you hostage. I did visit during their stay but was not fully apprised of what was going on. I do know that place inside and out and where there is a will there is a way. Fortunately, a doctor stepped up to the plate.
My cousin hr their baby at the hospital, talked them into c section, like they did my sister. But my cousins girlfriend got sewed back up and had internal bleeding for a few days before they noticed, she almost died. These doctors are so irresponsible
It is fortunate that she survived the event. Same for my fren's spouse. Close call. To close for comfort.
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