They look for "potential" in a man. So if you aren't morphing into the super rich super powerful man they thought you should be, they get increasingly irritated. Also, most women are just children in an adult body.

Every time you gripe about female irresponsibility under state driven incentives to be irresponsible with sex and resources, ask yourself what would happen to men if the government offered "free" whiskey and hookers at government expense.

It's the government incentive, not the sex.