Rising above it you are. Good man, write your past off to a learning experience and go forward. Strength to you bro.
Rising above it you are.
Good man, write your past off to a learning experience and go forward. Strength to you bro.
Guess the guy she fucked was better genetically
Guess the guy she fucked was better genetically
I suppose so, no jew genes, so there is that.
I suppose so, no jew genes, so there is that.
Try and find daddy. He might have some money. Lean in with the whole “I don’t want anything I just want to know you.” And follow through with a “oh my kids really wanted atvs, we can only afford one, you know you could come with us”
Try and find daddy. He might have some money. Lean in with the whole “I don’t want anything I just want to know you.” And follow through with a “oh my kids really wanted atvs, we can only afford one, you know you could come with us”
I know the name, my mother said she was in love with him, but stayed with "dad" I don't care. I'm very happy with my place in life. Call me a bastard? I'll chuckle and agree.
I know the name, my mother said she was in love with him, but stayed with "dad" I don't care. I'm very happy with my place in life. Call me a bastard? I'll chuckle and agree.
Probably some uber chad in his early-mid 20s that didn't know what he was doing.
Probably some uber chad in his early-mid 20s that didn't know what he was doing.
I didn’t know what I was doing in my mid-20s. But I wasn’t an Uber chad, I was a full on simp, believed all women. It took some painful life lessons to learn the reality of the world. Sometimes I wish I was 20 again knowing what I know now. But that would be cheating. I’m glad it played out the way it has. I can share my knowledge, my sons will benefit. My wife is happy, I’m hardly the asshole all woman believe men are. I stand my ground.
I didn’t know what I was doing in my mid-20s. But I wasn’t an Uber chad, I was a full on simp, believed all women. It took some painful life lessons to learn the reality of the world. Sometimes I wish I was 20 again knowing what I know now. But that would be cheating. I’m glad it played out the way it has. I can share my knowledge, my sons will benefit. My wife is happy, I’m hardly the asshole all woman believe men are. I stand my ground.
Sounds like your mom knew dad had shitty genes and spared you Aegon Targaryen. Thank her.
Sounds like your mom knew dad had shitty genes and spared you Aegon Targaryen. Thank her.
Wow! Now that is an obscure reference. But I’m okay with it, kudos, soldier.
Wow! Now that is an obscure reference. But I’m okay with it, kudos, soldier.
You called yourself snow, couldn't resist.
You called yourself snow, couldn't resist.
I was hoping you would spot that, lol!
I was hoping you would spot that, lol!
Obscure reference? It’s one of the most popular shows of all time lol
Obscure reference? It’s one of the most popular shows of all time lol
Yes, but even then, that name is buried in the annuals of Fire and Ice, buried deep in the lore, so many other characters and names outshine Aegon. Hence, obscure.
Yes, but even then, that name is buried in the annuals of Fire and Ice, buried deep in the lore, so many other characters and names outshine Aegon. Hence, obscure.
Mom was a whore, don’t marry somebody to then cheat on them later.
Mom was a whore, don’t marry somebody to then cheat on them later.
Be better than everyone else and you don't have that issue.
Be better than everyone else and you don't have that issue.
Proof positive that shaming works. It creates a drive in people to prove their parents wrong.
Sheltering children or raining down praise every day spoils the child and they resent their parents for being weak and non competitive
Proof positive that shaming works. It creates a drive in people to prove their parents wrong.
Sheltering children or raining down praise every day spoils the child and they resent their parents for being weak and non competitive
https://techcrunch.com/2019/01/18/dna-testing-twin-results-show-why-you-should-take-dna-analysis-with-a-grain-of-salt/
My biggest fear was that I would come back as 1% Ashkenazi Jewish. I don’t want to worship satan or steal from my family. Luckily I came up clean, thank you Jesus!
My biggest fear was that I would come back as 1% Ashkenazi Jewish. I don’t want to worship satan or steal from my family. Luckily I came up clean, thank you Jesus!
I'm surprised they didn't slap in 2% ashkenzi or bantu or something just to fuck with you.
I'm surprised they didn't slap in 2% ashkenzi or bantu or something just to fuck with you.
Oh they certainly did, they labeled me 1% African just to mess with me. I know it’s BS and read a news piece that they intentionally do this to mess with caucasians.
Oh they certainly did, they labeled me 1% African just to mess with me. I know it’s BS and read a news piece that they intentionally do this to mess with caucasians.
Kind of amazing when it all starts to make sense, eh?
There are to separate categories of stuff in your story:
1) Human Animal Nature - As we all grow older, if we are lucky to be present of mind, we all learn how the human animal works. It's like training a dog, cat or horse to do tricks. Each animal is a mammal so roughly identical but with VERY SPECIFIC psychological and physiological differences. So, each animal will roughly act like any mammal, however, the way you train each species needs to be tailored for the species.
Once you start to understand humans as a species (or at least 7 different species) you start to understand how we work.
The important part of learning how our species works is this: Our parents are fallible humans. They were thrown into a chaotic world from the loins of their parents. Whom, likewise, were thrown into a chaotic world from the loins of the previous generation and so forth.
People will often tell you to forgive and forget or to just get over it. This is WRONG advice because all it does is bury the symptoms, it doesn't address the proper way to deal with this knowledge.
Instead, as we all learn to how our species works, we all end up understanding our parents through our own mistakes. Eventually we all live long enough to have made similar mistakes as our parents. And, if we are wise enough, we learn to not just accept our parents mistakes, we learn to APPRECIATE the mistakes for the glorious poor choices they made in the chaos of the moment they found them selves in.
My mother hates a portion of me because I look like my father. I'm okay with that 100%. Not only do I understand it, I can FULLY APPRECIATE it now because it is natural for some parents to hate their children. If anything, I am grateful to just be alive.
Forgiveness is for losers. Instead, one must reach this base understanding of the human animal and an appreciation that our parents can only make the poor choices they made as they made them.
That is true peace in my opinion.
2) Training - Believe it or not, A LOT of what you describe can be addressed with PROPER TRAINING. I have access to specific domains of knowledge in this space and every time I read one of these stories I know of a series of tools that are available right now to help our people.
We cannot go into the past to help our people. But, what we can do is build the kinds of infrastructure that helps our people find them selves again, find their own people, find their way home BY PROVIDING THE SKILLS AND TOOLING THEY NEED TO BUILD THEIR FUTURES AND SUCCEED.
The work to build this has started.
Some of you may be asked to jump on board and help at the right time and place.
Kind of amazing when it all starts to make sense, eh?
There are to separate categories of stuff in your story:
1) Human Animal Nature - As we all grow older, if we are lucky to be present of mind, we all learn how the human animal works. It's like training a dog, cat or horse to do tricks. Each animal is a mammal so roughly identical but with VERY SPECIFIC psychological and physiological differences. So, each animal will roughly act like any mammal, however, the way you train each species needs to be tailored for the species.
Once you start to understand humans as a species (or at least 7 different species) you start to understand how we work.
The important part of learning how our species works is this: Our parents are fallible humans. They were thrown into a chaotic world from the loins of their parents. Whom, likewise, were thrown into a chaotic world from the loins of the previous generation and so forth.
People will often tell you to forgive and forget or to just get over it. This is WRONG advice because all it does is bury the symptoms, it doesn't address the proper way to deal with this knowledge.
Instead, as we all learn to how our species works, we all end up understanding our parents through our own mistakes. Eventually we all live long enough to have made similar mistakes as our parents. And, if we are wise enough, we learn to not just accept our parents mistakes, we learn to APPRECIATE the mistakes for the glorious poor choices they made in the chaos of the moment they found them selves in.
My mother hates a portion of me because I look like my father. I'm okay with that 100%. Not only do I understand it, I can FULLY APPRECIATE it now because it is natural for some parents to hate their children. If anything, I am grateful to just be alive.
Forgiveness is for losers. Instead, one must reach this base understanding of the human animal and an appreciation that our parents can only make the poor choices they made as they made them.
That is true peace in my opinion.
2) Training - Believe it or not, A LOT of what you describe can be addressed with PROPER TRAINING. I have access to specific domains of knowledge in this space and every time I read one of these stories I know of a series of tools that are available right now to help our people.
We cannot go into the past to help our people. But, what we can do is build the kinds of infrastructure that helps our people find them selves again, find their own people, find their way home BY PROVIDING THE SKILLS AND TOOLING THEY NEED TO BUILD THEIR FUTURES AND SUCCEED.
The work to build this has started.
Some of you may be asked to jump on board and help at the right time and place.
I have forgiven myself for being angry about this, yes there was a time when I harbored bitter resentment. Then, I went to war and that scared the shit out of me. I came home a more peaceful person. PTSD ain’t gonna take me. Every action has a thought, I think about those things, I am at peace with the world. There is no hate in my heart. Except for communists, it’s not hate, it’s loathe, I despise and loathe anything marxists. I’m at peace with that. The hatred for communism is so buried deep in my soul, I don’t know how I keep an even keel. Here in California I’m surrounded by them. But I’m reasonable and don’t want hurt on anybody, except commies. Striking out will just hurt me. For now.
I have forgiven myself for being angry about this, yes there was a time when I harbored bitter resentment. Then, I went to war and that scared the shit out of me. I came home a more peaceful person. PTSD ain’t gonna take me. Every action has a thought, I think about those things, I am at peace with the world. There is no hate in my heart. Except for communists, it’s not hate, it’s loathe, I despise and loathe anything marxists. I’m at peace with that. The hatred for communism is so buried deep in my soul, I don’t know how I keep an even keel. Here in California I’m surrounded by them. But I’m reasonable and don’t want hurt on anybody, except commies. Striking out will just hurt me. For now.
Damn. I'm also one of four kids but I know me and all of my siblings belong to my parents. Sadly, I also know my mother is adulterous.
Our father was put in prison for a bullshit crime. During that time, his father helped us get by while my mother pretended to pursue a career with some bogus magazine. My older brother found out my mother had been cheating on my father because my mother, being so computer illiterate, left the incriminating evidence on her social media and open email.
So my brother goes to confront her. At first, she flips out. Absolutely outraged at him for 'going through her things.' Then she attempts to say Dad was okay with it. Next time we get in contact with my Dad, my brother brings it up, Dad is completely in shock. Mom freaks out again, blames us for her adultery. That was about fourteen years ago. My father forgave my mother. My mother never apologized. And that's really just one facet of how she utterly failed her children while living off her husband's family's money.
But none of her children grew up to be criminals. Or druggies. Or adulterers. But we're probably not going to give her a lineage, which may seem sad but I'm glad it bothers her so much. To this day, she wonders why her children won't have kids. We all want to tell her it's her fault but our Dad still loves her dearly. Loves her enough to forgive her. But she's always been cold as a stone, only affording her efforts to criticize. It's this bizarre contradiction that none of us have the heart to dig at our dad over.
Damn. I'm also one of four kids but I know me and all of my siblings belong to my parents. Sadly, I also know my mother is adulterous.
Our father was put in prison for a bullshit crime. During that time, his father helped us get by while my mother pretended to pursue a career with some bogus magazine. My older brother found out my mother had been cheating on my father because my mother, being so computer illiterate, left the incriminating evidence on her social media and open email.
So my brother goes to confront her. At first, she flips out. Absolutely outraged at him for 'going through her things.' Then she attempts to say Dad was okay with it. Next time we get in contact with my Dad, my brother brings it up, Dad is completely in shock. Mom freaks out again, blames us for her adultery. That was about fourteen years ago. My father forgave my mother. My mother never apologized. And that's really just one facet of how she utterly failed her children while living off her husband's family's money.
But none of her children grew up to be criminals. Or druggies. Or adulterers. But we're probably not going to give her a lineage, which may seem sad but I'm glad it bothers her so much. To this day, she wonders why her children won't have kids. We all want to tell her it's her fault but our Dad still loves her dearly. Loves her enough to forgive her. But she's always been cold as a stone, only affording her efforts to criticize. It's this bizarre contradiction that none of us have the heart to dig at our dad over.
To each his own. I can relate to a lot of your story. My mother taught me just how awful women can be. I would have been fine being single my whole life, I just couldn’t see myself trusting a woman, until I did. I’m not sure how it happened but it did, I wasn’t looking for it. I can’t offer any magic advice, I’m still trying to figure life out, I’ll be doing that until I die, maybe the day after I’ll have the answers?
To each his own. I can relate to a lot of your story. My mother taught me just how awful women can be. I would have been fine being single my whole life, I just couldn’t see myself trusting a woman, until I did. I’m not sure how it happened but it did, I wasn’t looking for it. I can’t offer any magic advice, I’m still trying to figure life out, I’ll be doing that until I die, maybe the day after I’ll have the answers?
My father is an extremely romantic man. The story of him meeting my mom and swearing his entire life to her moved my heart so much that I thought it was just a matter of finding 'miss right.' I don't think women will ever grasp how greatly mothers can fail their sons. And instead, they and so many other gynocentric men say, "MEN HAVE FAILED SOCIETY!"
I deified the concept of women. Put them to a point they could never reach. I think, in truth, a lot of men feel that way about women. And it's why it's so easy for them to be what women immediately assume is 'misogyny.' But really, it's women utterly failing to come remotely close to that golden standard. At this point it's just accepting women aren't demons because they aren't angels. But the way they act now, and even during my mother's generation, it's like they're not even human. Just needy animals that men project holiness upon and hope for the best.
My father is an extremely romantic man. The story of him meeting my mom and swearing his entire life to her moved my heart so much that I thought it was just a matter of finding 'miss right.' I don't think women will ever grasp how greatly mothers can fail their sons. And instead, they and so many other gynocentric men say, "MEN HAVE FAILED SOCIETY!"
I deified the concept of women. Put them to a point they could never reach. I think, in truth, a lot of men feel that way about women. And it's why it's so easy for them to be what women immediately assume is 'misogyny.' But really, it's women utterly failing to come remotely close to that golden standard. At this point it's just accepting women aren't demons because they aren't angels. But the way they act now, and even during my mother's generation, it's like they're not even human. Just needy animals that men project holiness upon and hope for the best.
As far as women are concerned things started to go my way when I stopped putting them on a pedestal. As you said neither demons or angels, just people. The worst thing a man can do is worship a woman. You can love her, you can enjoy her company but if you can’t live without her you are fucked! A man who can live alone and be alone is a good man and worthy of marriage although not required to be a man.
As far as women are concerned things started to go my way when I stopped putting them on a pedestal. As you said neither demons or angels, just people. The worst thing a man can do is worship a woman. You can love her, you can enjoy her company but if you can’t live without her you are fucked! A man who can live alone and be alone is a good man and worthy of marriage although not required to be a man.
All of my brothers are half brothers. My mother also lied to me my whole life. Like you I also raised about my station. She would never tell me who my real father was but thanks to a DNA test I have a very good idea.
I don't think he knows about me... I've been trying to muster the courage to approach him.
All of my brothers are half brothers. My mother also lied to me my whole life. Like you I also raised about my station. She would never tell me who my real father was but thanks to a DNA test I have a very good idea.
I don't think he knows about me... I've been trying to muster the courage to approach him.
I now call my mother my half parent, which is true but I find it amusing. She does not. Even funnier. My half brother and sisters don’t care, they consider me family and nothing has changed in their eyes. I’m still their brother. But, everything changed in my eyes. I now see the disconnect, and why I was so different than them. I was always the outsider, now I know why.
I now call my mother my half parent, which is true but I find it amusing. She does not. Even funnier. My half brother and sisters don’t care, they consider me family and nothing has changed in their eyes. I’m still their brother. But, everything changed in my eyes. I now see the disconnect, and why I was so different than them. I was always the outsider, now I know why.
Here's the deal. You turned out so well because your life was hard and you had to struggle all the while. Mom and dad coddled the others so they never grew up. I see this in many families including my own.
Here's the deal. You turned out so well because your life was hard and you had to struggle all the while. Mom and dad coddled the others so they never grew up. I see this in many families including my own.
There is something to what you say, I was definitely not coddled, and was a bit confused by the perks and privileges my siblings received and I was denied. I was never bitter about it, but I was aware, they were too. Things are awkward to this day among us, but not negatively, they see my confidence, my competence, and how sure I am about the things I do, and they are intimidated. Why do things come easy to me and things are so hard for them? I must be cheating. Lol. School of hard knocks is a very good school.
There is something to what you say, I was definitely not coddled, and was a bit confused by the perks and privileges my siblings received and I was denied. I was never bitter about it, but I was aware, they were too. Things are awkward to this day among us, but not negatively, they see my confidence, my competence, and how sure I am about the things I do, and they are intimidated. Why do things come easy to me and things are so hard for them? I must be cheating. Lol. School of hard knocks is a very good school.
That is a lot more common than people think. I feel kind of sorry for your stepfather but he seems to be a loser anyway.
That is a lot more common than people think. I feel kind of sorry for your stepfather but he seems to be a loser anyway.
I feel bad for him too. Now that I look back with new understanding I kind of feel bad for him. I can’t imagine being in his shoes suffering the betrayal my mother dealt him. Poor guy. Nobody wants to be a cuck.
I feel bad for him too. Now that I look back with new understanding I kind of feel bad for him. I can’t imagine being in his shoes suffering the betrayal my mother dealt him. Poor guy. Nobody wants to be a cuck.
make sure to call the dad that lies a cuck every chance you get
make sure to call the dad that lies a cuck every chance you get
Well, he’s dead. When he passed, I didn’t feel anything. At the time I did not know why. “Your father died, why don’t you feel anything?” Now, I know, he wasn’t my father, and he certainly didn’t raise me as his beloved son.
Good news, I more than made up for it with my two sons. They know I love them and I am very proud of them. We chat often and all is cordial. Completely different than my upbringing. I was on a mission. I have two sons to be proud of, my wife is pleased. I can die tomorrow with no regrets.
Well, he’s dead. When he passed, I didn’t feel anything. At the time I did not know why. “Your father died, why don’t you feel anything?” Now, I know, he wasn’t my father, and he certainly didn’t raise me as his beloved son.
Good news, I more than made up for it with my two sons. They know I love them and I am very proud of them. We chat often and all is cordial. Completely different than my upbringing. I was on a mission. I have two sons to be proud of, my wife is pleased. I can die tomorrow with no regrets.
That’s more than most people can say. I’m proud of you for rising above that and making something of yourself, and especially for being a great dad to your boys. Good for you, man. That’s awesome.
That’s more than most people can say. I’m proud of you for rising above that and making something of yourself, and especially for being a great dad to your boys. Good for you, man. That’s awesome.
I’m so happy this left the front page, I have never been more embarrassed in my life. I decided to be honest but omg this sucked. Too much honesty. Ouch!
Nevermind it’s still there. One time I was 6 years old, I opened the front door and my mother was smooch facing with someone who was not my dad. Another time my dad beat the crap out of me and I have no idea why. He just started hitting me, I remember looking at mom, she did nothing. Good times!
I’m so happy this left the front page, I have never been more embarrassed in my life. I decided to be honest but omg this sucked. Too much honesty. Ouch!
Nevermind it’s still there. One time I was 6 years old, I opened the front door and my mother was smooch facing with someone who was not my dad. Another time my dad beat the crap out of me and I have no idea why. He just started hitting me, I remember looking at mom, she did nothing. Good times!
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