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I'm honestly surprised it didn't happen sooner, she works in care so of course that means she's double jabbed, the home she's at has also had two outbreaks which killed off about 14 or so residents (no flu deaths over the past 20 months though). The past few days though she feels like a train has hit her.

The thing that's pissing me off is that the penny hasn't dropped yet, I've avoided getting jabbed so far and I'm 100% fine. She's still coming out with shit like "imagine how bad I would've been without the vax". I even did a lateral flow test 3 days after her initial positive result and that came back negative, but nope, still no cogs whirring up there. It's not like I've been treating her like a leper either, I've been doing everything to make her feel like anything but.

I called her a fucking idiot when she got the jab, I'm hoping she realises why soon.

I'm honestly surprised it didn't happen sooner, she works in care so of course that means she's double jabbed, the home she's at has also had two outbreaks which killed off about 14 or so residents (no flu deaths over the past 20 months though). The past few days though she feels like a train has hit her. The thing that's pissing me off is that the penny hasn't dropped yet, I've avoided getting jabbed so far and I'm 100% fine. She's still coming out with shit like "imagine how bad I would've been without the vax". I even did a lateral flow test 3 days after her initial positive result and that came back negative, but nope, still no cogs whirring up there. It's not like I've been treating her like a leper either, I've been doing everything to make her feel like anything but. I called her a fucking idiot when she got the jab, I'm hoping she realises why soon.

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[–] • 10 pts (edited )

Just remember one thing my friend: family above else.

It is NOT important to be right in a relationship. The only thing that matters in a relationship is: DO EACH OF YOU WANT WHAT IS BEST FOR EACH OTHER.

Everything else doesn't matter.

Sometimes the truth is necessary, sometimes space and just time. Sometimes just listening. There are also a lot of tricks to communicating with a spouse, the best one is to saturate them with kindness and drop little crumbs of truth while smiling and feeling positive energy. Their subconcious will pick up on the positive energy and make them more receptive to the truth.

Eventually all you will need to do is tell her exactly what you just wrote: You aren't vaxxed and you are fine.

People take time to change their mind, just keep on working combining positive energy with crumbs of truth and she will absorb the information through osmosis.

[–] • 6 pts

Thank you, at the moment I'm just focusing on making sure she gets better, she looks and feels like shit so it's definitely not the time to be dropping truth bombs and messing with her head.

She's been so close to hitting the right conclusion before, she'll notice things that don't add up but stop just short of arriving at the answer. Denial is a heck of a thing to work through I guess.

[–] • 1 pt

Most welcome. Just keep on smiling every time you see her. That will mean more to her than both of you realize, it's all on the subconcious layer of the brain.

For us men, it is REALLY difficult to be smiling all the time. We are built to find resources and go to war and die. A man that smiles all the time is a faggot and our internal sensors know this. But, at home with your spouse, it is an important communication technique. For me, to make my self smile, every time I look at my woman I imagine what it would be like if she died one day. That single thought makes me smile ear to ear and appreciate the seconds that I have with her.

I hope some of what I wrote is helpful.

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I imagine what it would be like if she died one day. That single thought makes me smile ear to ear...

I definitely misread this the first time.

[–] • 4 pts

What are you talking about? I tell my ex wife I was right all the time.

[–] [deleted] • 0 pt

And how much did that cost you? /s

[–] • 2 pts

There is something very wise about this. Something akin to pushing a wet noodle up hill. Positive energy sounds hokey but there is something about that. The spiteful people are not fun to be around, so why would you inherently listen to them?

[–] • 0 pt

In a marriage, it's more important to be kind than right in a conversation.

[–] • 0 pt

letting your spouse ingest deadly poison is not kind

[–] • 0 pt (edited )

The importance of finding the right mate plays a huge factor here. If she's western it's even more difficult to find an agreeable mate at this point.

They have been working on dividing the home for a long time now and that plan is bearing fruit.