Thank you, at the moment I'm just focusing on making sure she gets better, she looks and feels like shit so it's definitely not the time to be dropping truth bombs and messing with her head.
She's been so close to hitting the right conclusion before, she'll notice things that don't add up but stop just short of arriving at the answer. Denial is a heck of a thing to work through I guess.
Most welcome. Just keep on smiling every time you see her. That will mean more to her than both of you realize, it's all on the subconcious layer of the brain.
For us men, it is REALLY difficult to be smiling all the time. We are built to find resources and go to war and die. A man that smiles all the time is a faggot and our internal sensors know this. But, at home with your spouse, it is an important communication technique. For me, to make my self smile, every time I look at my woman I imagine what it would be like if she died one day. That single thought makes me smile ear to ear and appreciate the seconds that I have with her.
I hope some of what I wrote is helpful.
I imagine what it would be like if she died one day. That single thought makes me smile ear to ear...
I definitely misread this the first time.
Dear lord. My bad.
Heh.
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