You have thought this through very well. We hold outs pity the jabbed. You do what you can and I hope it all turns out well for all of you. Your dad sounds like a great guy and he's weighed his options and made his own choices. Let us hope his choice does not destroy him. At least your family seems in a good position. Working for government sucks. I did that in the 1970's. Ick. Got out, went to the World Trade Center Executive Staff. Ick again. I'm a slow learner.