many years ago i had thoughts about ending it. it was because i was weak and stupid. it took many years to change that and now i can calmly handle any situation. 1. learn to do EVERYTHING yourself. if you need to use cash to solve a problem, you need to work on your skillset. 2. have available resources. build and gather them. 3. do physical work instead of a gym, for cash or for yourself, friends or family. 4. deny yourself anything you cling to. once you break habits and addictions you are free to enjoy those things again. stay in control. 5. dont waste time, dont be idle. switch off the tv, read a book, make something, go to the woods or walk in the hills. 6. accept your own mortality, time is short so keep changing and adapting. this makes life more interesting. a great reason to live is to see what the fuck happens next. accept responsibility for your life. 7. take every failure as a lesson. if you learn that lesson the failure becomes a win. 8. make plans. make plan b, c, d, etc. plan A often turns out shit. 9. eject eject eject from toxic social circles. dont be afraid or shy to ditch shitty 'friends'. there are better friends you have yet to meet. 10. never get too hung up on relationships. remember that love ends so enjoy it while it lasts and always be ready to move on. 11. put on your oxygen mask before helping others! look after number one. thats the best way to be able to assist those around you. 12. wear sunscreen... just kidding, burn peel, grow a thick leather. baby soft skin is for women. 13. ask questions. ask yourself. if you dont have answers, return to step 1 and repeat. each time you do the answer will be different. this is normal.
Thank you for sharing, this is very helpful
(post is archived)