im happy to see people have fun. i recognise good fun/enjoyment and fun/enjoyment not worth my time. to be happy for others, sypathetic joy, is a bhamavara - a brama abode-. a person can spread that feeling/wish to everyone. sometimes it can be best to send that feeling/thought towards those we dont like the most, sometimes its wise to be happy for ourselves first. you all here talk about these esoteric issues. so do i. but i put my life on the line for what i say. i talk about whats really important. the world could maybe get bad tomorrow and id like you all to know what Theravada Buddism is, the essential nature of stress and the cosmological structure that is implied through the nature of stress.