Seems like (((their))) intentions are working. Whites becoming discouraged is a big part of their plan. The master work, The ART OF WAR is largely about winning against a foe by taking away his will to resist. But for every quitter, our race raises a new set of heroes, great thinkers and warriors to fight and to build and to continue our greatness. So go ahead and settle into your self-absorbed little world. If you do not self-destruct, your innate nature will shake you out of your stupor. That you believe the things you presently believe are for valid reasons does not preclude your growth in unseen directions in the future. I still have more hope for you than you do. When I was young, half of my peers shared your bleak view of the world. All of them grew and changed and like myself, are happy parents or grandparents. As for women, they are - women. They've always been what and how they are. You cannot find what you do not seek. In any field, there are flowers among the weeds. And oddly, the good women I've know complain about how few good men they can find. It's all about how you've been taught or misled. The reality is a bigger world than most of us can imagine.