Have you considered going to Houston? Apparently they have the world's top notch cancer research and treatment centers. I mention it because I only learned about it too late, but there is some promise to buying some real time at least. I am truly sorry to hear about your diagnosis, it's a terrible thing. I lost my father 8 years ago to lung cancer. It...sucks. I'd kill for the opportunity to have bought just a little more time with him. I am just some rando on the net, but I am happy to talk about anything anytime if you'd like. Sometimes it can help work through tough issues, feel free to PM or whatever. I know I'm not alone in that sentiment.