What women think in one setting and what they think in another might be night and day. Women are hypersensitive to social environments, and they are also very easily influenced by them. So their innermost thoughts in a hypothetical situation tend to be something they aren't aware of, even if they feel confident. They aren't lying about themselves, they are honestly mistaken about it. They lack self-awareness. How did this come about? Well, men want a loyal woman to be the mother of their children, but it is in the woman's advantage to go with the enemy if they are conquered. Therefore, they have evolved to be both loyal and disloyal depending on the circumstances, and be genuine in both cases. So yeah, they are made to be fucked in the head on purpose, its an evolutionary programned strategy.