Thanks I'll try to find this as a pdf and read it.
I've always considered care homes as "killing bottles" (catching fireflies?) as the unwanted, uncared for and lonely people, elder or not, are discarded and abused and neglected in these vile animal welfare-like buildings for humans.
It is worth it.
My ex brother in laws uncle had prostate cancer and was told he had 2 years to live, we saw them every month or two at family functions.
They were basically counting down the days the last time we saw them, something like “I only have 28 days left”. He was still completely healthy and thought it was a joke.
2 weeks later they brought in hospice, started drugging him, his wife said, can you give him more and more often, when it where’s off he’s really angry. So they upped the dose and frequency and exactly 2 years to the date he was dead.
I don’t trust anyone.