So, the mothers lack a stable sense of identity and force that on their children.
Their sporadic nature and rotating from imaginary threat to imaginary threat destroys any ability to maintain a consistent reward/punishment system.
This is actually the cause of BPD, having a fucked up reward system in youth, where children have no ability to predict what is right or wrong in their parent's eyes. This is also how it gets passed down.
Stay away from BPD people. It just isn't worth it.
I was in court for a registration ticket and while waiting a BPD old woman who was getting a restraining order placed on her by some other nice old lady... they gave the restraining order and the BPD fucker tossed a note onto the other womans lap and the woman ofc jumps up and tells the judge.
"Hey she literally just came over here and tossed this crazy note shit on my lap."
and she had done it too, all casual like nothing wrong, but wanting people to see it at same time. The judge sends the copper over and tells him to arrest her and take her into custody, gives her like 90 days and a psych eval.
The woman mentions that the crazy woman is Bipolar and the judge literally, verbatim, said what you just said.
"You cannot treat BPD, nothing fixes them, best to just stay away"
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