No it's not, truth is not subjective. Plus we always fall short of whatever goals we set. No one keeps even their own commandments.
Really we ought to be surprised when someone does a selfless good deed. Our default setting is a-hole and that's how people act and think most of the time. We just rationalize our decisions. .
Whether a person is "a good person" is subjective. Without evidence, so is religion. And with Christianity good deeds are usually entirely selfish: I want to go to heaven and avoid hell, therefore I'll do this good deed.
Good deeds don't get you to heaven in Christianity. Maybe you should actually look into it since you clearly misunderstand it.
Oh sure it's hidden behind layers of "spirit" and lies one tells oneself. There's a line of cause and effect in there. I have to believe and try not to sin and be forgiven when I do. But the whole thing is wrapped up with the carrot and the stick.
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