This should be one of the 3 "talks" every dad has with his son! Be very careful about it though, because most women spend a lot of time making sure their little boys tell them everything! I don't think I ever cucked out on my dad! But women are experts at getting their children to talk! I was good at keeping silent! Mom couldn't get crap out of me to use against dad! I can't say that about my boys though! They ratted me out Every single time I tried to tell them these things, For Their Own Benefit!! Well, now they are both paying for not listening to their old dad! Haha, jokes on them.