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Been married 37 years now. Spouse still thinks voting makes a difference. Still thinks there is hope in America. Still watches Tucker and believes in muh ‘merica. We agree on a lot, but recently (last 3 years) I’ve seen a big separation on agreement politically. Maybe I’m the fucked up one, but he (yes, he) has always been an optimist. And no, it’s not a gay marriage. I’m a female. But this evening, he was so vitriolic about how negative I am. Said some things to me that, as I type this, makes cry. So hurtful. We are traditional, but damn. Wake up man.

Been married 37 years now. Spouse still thinks voting makes a difference. Still thinks there is hope in America. Still watches Tucker and believes in muh ‘merica. We agree on a lot, but recently (last 3 years) I’ve seen a big separation on agreement politically. Maybe I’m the fucked up one, but he (yes, he) has always been an optimist. And no, it’s not a gay marriage. I’m a female. But this evening, he was so vitriolic about how negative I am. Said some things to me that, as I type this, makes cry. So hurtful. We are traditional, but damn. Wake up man.

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Stop being blackpilled, it doesn't help anything. Stop watching political shit for a while, just live life and chill out with your husband. If needed, have him unplug from politics for a while too. I suggest apologizing and getting him to apologize as well, and maybe go out to dinner or just get out and do something where you can get your mind off things.

If either of you argue with people online, just stop entirely, it will help.

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>If needed, have him unplug from politics for a while too. >>

Easier said than done.

I’ve apologized. Did not get an acceptance of the apology. Haven’t received an apology. He left for work for 4 days (pilot). We’ll see what happens upon his return.

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Men are typically rational so I'd just say tell him you think you both should take a break from looking at political news and shit and that it's making you both irritable and a break would help cool things down.